Chantelle Otten is a world-renowned sexologist celebrated for her charisma, relatability, and ability to navigate the conversations people often don’t know how to approach. With a deep understanding of human behaviour, communication, and connection, she seamlessly translates her expertise beyond the bedroom—into leadership, personal development, and the psychology of influence.
Born into a Dutch family, Chantelle spent a significant part of her life living and studying in the Netherlands, where she honed her expertise in sexual wellness, psychology, and human behaviour. Her Dutch background deeply influences her approach—straightforward, impactful, and unapologetically direct. She cuts through discomfort with ease, making complex topics engaging, accessible, and actionable.
As the founder of a thriving international sexology practice, Chantelle has worked with clients worldwide, with individuals flying across the globe to seek her guidance. Her bestselling book, The Sex Ed I Never Had, has transformed the way people think about relationships and self-confidence, while her presence on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube has made her one of the most followed and trusted voices in her field.
A Powerhouse in Media & Education
Chantelle is the host of three groundbreaking podcasts:
- Sex Therapy Sessions with Chantelle Otten—Audible’s biggest podcast launch of 2023-2024, offering an exclusive look inside the therapy room.
- Give Me a Buzz—her collaboration with Bumble, where she shares dating and relationship insights as the brand’s longest-standing ambassador of over five years.
- Sexy Stories—a intimate space for candid erotic stories
A Trusted Voice in Media & Beauty
Beyond her digital influence, Chantelle has contributed to and been featured in some of the world’s leading publications, including:
- Cosmopolitan Magazine (as Deputy Editor of the sealed section)
- Marie Claire
- ELLE Magazine
- Mamamia
- Body+Soul (as the resident sexologist)
- Stellar Magazine
She has also broken new ground in the beauty and healthcare space as an ambassador for Kérastase, one of the world’s most prestigious haircare brands—marking a rare and powerful crossover from sexual wellness to beauty.
Chantelle is also recognised for her bold, impeccable fashion, frequently making waves with her stylish and sophisticated presence. She continues to merge confidence, beauty, and empowerment in a way that resonates deeply with her audience.
Philanthropy & Advocacy
Chantelle’s impact extends far beyond her practice. She has dedicated a significant portion of her clinical time to providing pro-bono therapy for individuals who cannot afford sessions, ensuring that essential sexual wellness support is accessible to those in need.
She is also a key figure in disability awareness and advocacy, offering trusted education and guidance to healthcare professionals, disability advocacy groups, and organisations working with sexuality, relationships, and disability. Her work in this space has been instrumental in breaking down barriers, challenging stigma, and ensuring that everyone—regardless of ability—has access to safe, informed, and inclusive sexual wellness resources.
A Global Thought Leader
Current communities between Australia and New York, but often heading back to the EU, Chantelle is frequently called upon by global brands and organisations to speak about the intersection of psychology, relationships, workplace dynamics, and personal empowerment. Whether through her clinical practice, media presence, or corporate speaking engagements, she continues to redefine how we approach intimacy, confidence, and success—both personally and professionally.
Talking Points
Beyond the Title: Why Great Professionals Are More Than Their Job
- Exploring how personal identity, values, and self-awareness impact professional success.Beyond the Title: Why Great Professionals Are More Than Their Job
- Understanding the unseen struggles people carry and how that affects leadership and performance.
- How personal boundaries, relationships, and emotional intelligence shape leadership.
The Psychology of Influence: How to Motivate Change Without Forcing It
- The science behind behavioural change and decision-making.The Psychology of Influence: How to Motivate Change Without Forcing It
- How to use motivational interviewing to inspire action.
- Why telling people to change doesn’t work—and what does.
The Power of Boundaries: How Stronger Limits Create Better Leaders
- Why setting boundaries in the workplace leads to higher performance.The Power of Boundaries: How Stronger Limits Create Better Leaders
- Recognising burnout, emotional load, and learning to say no without guilt.
- The link between personal boundaries and professional decision-making.
Confidence, Charisma, and Connection: The Unseen Skills of Top Executives
- How human connection impacts leadership and decision-making.Confidence, Charisma, and Connection: The Unseen Skills of Top Executives
- The science of charisma and making a lasting impression.
- Practical tools to improve trust, presence, and influence in business.
The Role of Psychology in Leadership: Understanding Human Behaviour for Better Business
- The hidden biases that impact business decisions.The Role of Psychology in Leadership: Understanding Human Behaviour for Better Business
- Why people act against their own best interests—and how to guide them.
- Using emotional intelligence to drive collaboration and productivity.
Stress, Sex, and Success: How Your Personal Life Impacts Your Professional One
- The role of stress on overall wellbeing and decision-making.Stress, Sex, and Success: How Your Personal Life Impacts Your Professional One
- How relational and emotional health influence focus, energy, and leadership.
- The science of work-life balance and how to cultivate it.
Navigating Power and Connection in Professional Relationships
- Understanding workplace dynamics through the lens of intimacy, trust, and influence.Navigating Power and Connection in Professional Relationships
- How to foster psychologically safe environments for open communication.
- What business leaders can learn from relationship science.
Reframing Conflict: Turning Difficult Conversations into Growth Opportunities
- How to handle difficult conversations with emotional intelligence.Reframing Conflict: Turning Difficult Conversations into Growth Opportunities
- The psychology of conflict resolution and de-escalation.
- Why vulnerability and active listening lead to better business outcomes.
Burnout, Boundaries, and Performance: Redefining Success Without Self-Sacrifice
- The connection between stress, grief, and professional decision-making.Burnout, Boundaries, and Performance: Redefining Success Without Self-Sacrifice
- The dangers of hustle culture and why working *less* often leads to *more* success.
- How to cultivate sustainable high performance without burnout.
The Complexities We Don’t See: Leading With Empathy in a World of Hidden Struggles
- Understanding that everyone has a story—what’s happening behind closed doors in people’s lives.The Complexities We Don’t See: Leading With Empathy in a World of Hidden Struggles
- How grief, trauma, and personal challenges impact leadership and work.
- Leading with kindness while maintaining professional standards.
The Science of Resilience: How to Build Strength Through Life’s Hardest Moments
- How neuroscience and psychology explain resilience and adaptation.The Science of Resilience: How to Build Strength Through Life’s Hardest Moments
- What to do when life throws a curveball—navigating setbacks and emotional turmoil.
- How resilience translates into leadership, relationships, and business success.
Video
Award-winning Sexologist Chantelle Otten on Sex Myths, Pornography & Relationships
Chantelle Otten is a award-winning sexologist who specialises in helping individuals and couples improve their sexual health and relationships. We covered all the big topics around sex – from debunking myths to the importance of sexual health, what men often get wrong, the impacts of porn, Chantelle’s work as a sexologist and much more. This is one you don’t want to miss.Dyl & Friends | #94 Chantelle Otten
This week on Dyl & Friends we have an amazing guest, Chantelle Otten. Chantelle is a Melbourne based Psycho-Sexologist who is passionate about empowering people to feel great about their sexual health, self-esteem, communication and education. She is an absolute master in her field and has become a pioneer in the psycho-sexology space here in Australia. Chantelle's clinic and business’s are booming, which comes as no surprise with years of study under her belt and a determination and vision to break down taboos and make sex sexy for all of us!
